Rememory
In Beloved by Toni Morrison, one recurring theme is memory of the past. In the quote, “It took longer for those who had spoken to her, lived with her, fallen in love with her, to forget, until they realized they couldn't remember or repeat a single thing she said, and began to believe that, other than what they themselves were thinking, she hadn't said anything at all” (323) It is shown that memory is optional to each person. Beloved was a part of Sethe, Denver, and Paul D’s lives but they chose to erase her along with the memories of her. If Beloved’s behavior was imagined by each of the characters they could also chose to forget about her. Beloved was imagined to be what they needed her to be in their minds. This plays on the theme of memory because most of this book is centered around the choice of memory. Everyone remembers events and things differently, as they can chose what parts they want to omit or elaborate on. This book shows us that bringing up memories can be painful for different people. The author could have used this to show the readers the importance of remembering painful memories. The readers show us how it maybe be easy to chose to remember only good memories but by forgetting it feels wrong to forget much of an important event. It is almost like they're forgetting her subconsciously just like all the painful memories of slavery. Beloved's story was painful along and brought back memories of all of their backgrounds. The characters can choose to forget about beloved just like choosing to forget about all other memories the might not want to remember again.
In the article “Revisions, Rememories, and Exorcisms” it shows how this novel discusses difficult subjects like slavery in a way that makes the reader understand the full significance. This also shows us the importance of remembering slavery. This article shows that the author probably intended to make the reader shocked that everyone is forgetting about these shocking events, only making it more memorable. Because the book is written seeming to suggest that it is okay to forget slavery it puts more emphasis on remembering slavery.
In the quote when they say “They forgot her like a bad dream” this shows the reader that the memory of beloved was not a positive one. This also shows us that the memory of Beloved was already starting to feel unreal, like a dream. In the part of the quote where it says “they realized they couldn't remember or repeat a single thing she said, and began to believe that, other than what they themselves were thinking, she hadn't said anything at all” this shows us that they people closest to her couldn't even remember what was truly her. They were able to remember there opinion and thoughts on her but they were not able to remember the truth about her and her actions. This shows the reader that even the people who were close to her chose not to remember her.
While reading this section of the book I thought it was shocking that they would have wanted to erase the memory of Beloved because she had seemed like a key part of the story. When considering it more I realised that by erasing the memory the people were just choosing what they wanted to remember. It is like the characters are choosing to forget about the painful parts of these memories. When the author writes that we are all meant to forget it left more of an impact on me. I think that the author did this on purpose to help the readers remember the significance of revisiting memories of painful things.
